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Baffled?
- Parenting Tips
Below you will find information referred to
in the audio book
"Baffled About Baby?
A quick and easy audio guide to baby
care."
Scroll down to find:
Baffled!
Boo Boos & Other Changes
Immunization
Schedule
Expanded
Newborn Screening
Childcare Phone Numbers
Poisonous House and Yard Plants
Travel Packing List
Feeding a Baby (0-12 months)
Medicines & Nursing Moms

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Baffled?
Boo Boos,
Changes, & Clarifications


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The most
important tip on this 2 CD set is, “Learn all you
can about the care of your
child. Take a class, consult books, check the Internet, and talk to
experienced parents and professionals. Then take all of this information
and process it with a good dose of common sense and good
judgment."
The CDs were designed to
work hand-in-hand with this web page, your desire to learn, and your good judgment.
You are encouraged to read the information printed here or visit these
links if you feel the need.
There may be information
that is controversial, and there will always be a tip or two that someone
won't agree with. As with any production, the CDs may contain a few
errors. The group has tried to present material that is as accurate as
possible, and where subjective, they have gone with a group
consensus. If there are any questions or concerns, feel free to
contact them through this web page, and they will address them.
Below, you will find any
boo boos, clarifications or changes that we will be making to our CD in
our next edition. We provide this information to you as we receive
feedback and questions about tips from our listeners.
Boo Boo:
Section "Breastfeeding" -
Should you ask for a "lactaid" consultant, you might find
yourself thoroughly embarrassed. By "lactaid" consultant, we mean "lactation"
consultant. How did that happen? We haven't the faintest idea,
but we know that it did - we probably edited out the wrong voice clip in
post production - and we didn't catch it. But, we hope this oversight doesn't get in the way of
the rest of the information.
Clarification:
Section "Breastfeeding"
- "You can store one feeding in
the coldest part of the refrigerator for up to 24 hours. Throw it away
if you don’t use it. Frozen breast milk can be kept in the freezer
for up to 3 months.”
We are referring to previously frozen
breast milk.
Section "Bathing" -
1. “When bathing an infant, use a small infant bath tub which confines
their body to a small space.”
2. “Your baby is ready for a grown up tub when she sits up on her
own.”
3. ”Another unusual idea is to use a 20-40 gallon Rubbermaid style tub
so your child can bath while you take a shower.”
This information is meant to be digested
chronologically. This is not to imply that parents should use the
Rubbermaid style tub unless their child can sit up and play in the tub on
their own, and always under the parent's supervision while showering. Parents
should take the same precautions with this tub as they would with their
full size tub, and the use of bath aids is recommended. Using the smaller
tub conserves water, and confines your baby to a smaller space. The
edges of the tub are also easier for your baby to use for support.
Did you circumcise your son? Then you
will need to put a sterile form of petroleum jelly in the portion of each
clean & dry diaper where your son's penis will rest until the wound is
heeled. The doctor or nurse will give you the proper care and jelly
after the procedure.
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Immunization
Schedule

Click
Here for a
schedule from the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention at
www.cdc.gov.
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Children need
immunizations (shots) to protect them from dangerous childhood diseases.
Serious reactions to vaccines are extremely rare, but do occur. However,
the risks of serious disease from not vaccinating are far greater than the
risks of serious reaction to the vaccination. Side effects can occur
with vaccination, depending on the vaccine: slight fever, rash or soreness
at the site of injection. Slight discomfort is normal and should not be a
cause for alarm. Your health care provider can assist you with additional
information.
By immunizing on time (by age 2), you can
protect your child from being infected and prevent the infection of others
at school or at daycare centers. Children under 5 are especially
susceptible to disease because their immune systems have not built up the
necessary defenses to fight infection.
Immunize
your child on schedule. Babies get their first shot at birth, then subsequent
shots at 2 months, 4 months, 6 months, 12 months, 15-18 months, and then
again at 4 years old.
Properly
maintained shot records are required when registering your child for some
day care facilities, eventually school, and for travel to some countries.
These diseases have serious complications and
can even kill children.
 | Measles |
 | Mumps |
 | Polio |
 | Rubella
(German Measles) |
 | Pertussis |
 | Diphtheria |
 | Tetanus |
 | Haemophilus influenzae type b (Hib
disease) |
 | Hepatitis B |
 | Varicella (chickenpox) |
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Expanded
Newborn Screening

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Newborn screening is a
state's-right issue: there are no federal regulations governing newborn
screening. Only about 1 out of every 4,500 children are affected by
all metabolic disorders put together in this country. But if your child is
afflicted, those numbers become quite unimportant. Ask your
obstetrician or pediatrician if your hospital offers expanded newborn
screening. If so, for which diseases? Some hospitals and labs
check for only the most common or treatable conditions, including PKU,
VLCAD, and MCAD. Some don't.
If your hospital doesn't offer
expanded newborn screening, both Neo Gen Screening (412-341-8658: www.neogenscreening.com)
and Baylor University Medical Center (800-422-9567: www.BaylorHealth.com)
provide testing for all 30-plus metabolic disorders to parents anywhere in the
U.S. The labs mail you a kit that is used by your pediatrician to collect
a blood sample, which you then mail back for analysis. The cost is about
$25 for newborns who are up to 4 weeks old, and $50 for older babies.
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Childcare

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Start
your childcare search while you’re still pregnant. Waiting lists can be 6-12
months long. Network with other parents, church members, or parents in any
organization you belong to.
There are usually local organizations through
which you can obtain referrals to qualified childcare in your area.
A national hot line, Child Care Aware, can direct
you to local child care resources and referral agencies
at 800-424-2246. Two private associations stamp their seal of approval
on child-care facilities.
The NAEYC National Association for the Education of
Young Children at www.NAEYC.org
at 800-424-2460. And,
the NAFCC, National Association for Family Child care at www.NAFCC.org. You can also
contact your State Department of Child or Human Services regarding childcare
legislation and licensing.
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Poisonous
House
&
Yard
Plants

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Recognize the plants in your
surroundings. Know which are poisonous. Purchase non-toxic
plants for your home and garden.
Remove and destroy poisonous plants
from your home and garden and ask your neighbors to do the same.
Teach children that putting leaves,
stems, flowers, seeds, berries or wild mushrooms in their mouths is
dangerous. Be aware that these plants may also be poisonous to pets.
Keep a bottle of Syrup of Ipecac in
your home (do not use unless instructed to do so by your physician or the
poison information center).
Keep a Poison Information Center
number near your telephone.
If a skin reaction occurs, or if
internal poisoning occurs (from eating a poisonous plant), call the Poison
Control Center immediately.
Call your doctor or a poison
information center as soon as the exposure occurs. If asked to go to
the emergency room take part of the plant, seeds, or berries with you to aid
identification.
Never eat wild mushrooms and destroy
mushrooms that appear in the yard. Forage for your mushrooms in the
produce department of your grocery store.
Learn more about the plants in your
surroundings.
There are many house plants, and numerous
garden and yard plants, that are potentially poisonous. Many of these plants are
not fatal, but can cause severe digestive problems, pain and discomfort.
The most toxic plant parts are listed in
alphabetical order. Note that some plant parts are non-toxic, while other parts
on the same plant are toxic. Those plants marked "fatal" are
potentially fatal. Also note that many plants within a certain family may be
toxic, so if you know that one plant in a family is poisonous, be especially
cautious with other plants in that same family.
 | Autumn Crocus, Colchicum
autumnalle, bulb FATAL
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 | Angel's Trumpet, Datura (some
species), seeds, leaves
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 | Bleeding Heart, Dicentra (some
species), all parts FATAL
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 | Buttercup, Ranunculus (some
species), all parts
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 | Calla Lily, Zantedeschia
aethiopica, leaves and rhizome
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 | Castor Beans, Ricinus communis,
seeds FATAL
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 | Chokecherry, Birdcherry Prunus
(some species), seeds (stones)
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 | Flesh of fruit non-toxic; Daffodil,
Narcissus (some species), bulb
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Daphne, Daphne (some species), all parts, especially seed FATAL
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Delphinium, Delphinium (some species), seeds, young plants
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Eggplant, Solanum melongena, all parts except fruit
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Elderberry, Sambucus (some species), roots, seeds (stones) FATAL
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Four O'Clock, Mirabilis jalapa, roots, seeds
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Foxglove, Digitalis purpurea, all parts FATAL
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Iris, Iris (some species), rhizome (root)
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Larkspur, Delphinium (some species), seeds, young plants
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Lily family (Many members of the lily family are potentially poisonous; avoid
eating bulbs unless they are identified to be non- toxic)
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Lily-of-the-Valley, Convallaria majalis, all parts
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 | Lobelia, Lobelia (some species), all parts
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 | Lupines, Lupinus (some species), seeds
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 | Monkshood, Aconitum napellus, all parts
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Morning Glory, Ipomoea violacea, seeds
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Mushrooms (many are poisonous, some are deadly. Avoid eating any mushrooms
unless they are positively identified as being non- toxic.)
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Narcissus, Narcissus (some species), bulb
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Oak, Quercus (some species), acorn, young plant
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Potato, Solanum tuberosum, green seed balls, green tubers
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Privet, Ligustrum vulgare, all parts
Rhubarb, Rheum rhaponticum, leaves (stems non-toxic) FATAL
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 | Sedum, Sedum (some species), all parts
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 | Snow-on-the-Mountain, Euphorbia
marginata, sap
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Spindle Tree, Euonymus (some species), leaves, fruit, bark
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Sweet Pea, Lathyrus odoratus, seeds
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Tansy, Tanacetum vulgare, all parts
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Tulip, Tulipa (some species), bulb
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Virginia Creeper, Parthenocissus quinquefolia, berries
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Yew, Taxus (some species), seeds (fleshy red pulp not as toxic) FATAL
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There are many more house and garden
plants that can be toxic or poisonous. Consult a reference book before
eating any native berries or nuts, before eating any roots and before making tea
from any leaves. Recommended reference books include:
Poisonous Plants
by
Robert
Arnold
Paperback - 141
pages (June 1, 1978)
Poisonous Plants contains all of the plants reported to have
caused human poisoning during a 10 year period. (1967-1977) The Index Medicus was
the source, and there were 96 plants reported to have caused human poisoning
severe enough to be published in the medical literature. Each plant is discussed
separately, symptoms and treatment as reported in the medical literature.
Scientific names as well as common names are included. Where
can I buy this book?
COMMON POISONOUS PLANTS AND MUSHROOMS
by Turner, Nancy J. And Szczawinski, Adam F.
Over 7¾' - 9¾' tall and profusely Illustrated with 211 color
photos, appendices; glossary; index. This book was selected as an 'Outstanding
Reference Source' by the American Library Association. It is a great book for
parents, hikers, and health care workers. All plants listed have a color photo
to aid in positive ID. Also listed is info on toxicity and recommended
treatment. Where
can I find this book?
A Field Guide to Venomous
Animals and Poisonous Plants:
North America : North of Mexico (Peterson's Field Guides)
by Steven
Foster, Roger A. Caras
Paperback Expanded edition (September 15, 1998)
Dimensions (in inches): 0.73 x 7.16 x
4.47
This book thorough book includes an Introduction to poisonous plants, venomous
insects, reptiles and mammals, a complete glossary, and a reference section.
Where can I buy this book?
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Travel
Packing List
For
additional safe travel recommendations, with specific attention to foreign
destinations, contact the Centers for Disease Control at www.cdc.gov.
Make a packing list for your child and go by that
list every time you travel.
Basic
recommendations are:

Clothing for the season to include:
Shoes
Pajamas
Coat
Light Sweater
Blanket
Rain Gear
Bib
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Feeding supplies:
Bottles
Bottle liners
Nipples
Formula
Cereal
Infant feeding spoon
No spill cup
Cool pack to cool bottles

Simple Necessities:
Pacifier
Toothbrush and paste
Baby bath
Baby lotion
Baby oil
Hair brush
Comb
Hair ties
Baby nail clippers
Q-tips
Tissues
Diapers
Wipies

Take or make arrangements for a:
Car seat
Portable crib
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Something for your child to do:
Toy
Book
Children’s music
Videos
Stuffed animal

Medicines: We do not endorse any particular one of
these brands,
but name them as an example:
Infant’s Tylenol
Mylicon for gas
Orajel for teething
Thermometer for fever
Glycerin suppositories for constipation.
Diaper rash creams
Anti-itch cream for bug bites
Ointment for chaffing or burns
Ipecac vomit inducer
Ear plugs
Anti-infection cream
Band-Aids
Prescribed medication
Allergy medication
Cold or cough medicines
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Feeding
a Baby
(0-12
mo.)
(premature
babies
are an exception)




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0-4 Months: Formula or
breast milk
4-6 Months: Formula with
an introduction to baby cereals (oatmeal, barley, and/or rice). Major
brands of these types of cereals are boxed and sold in grocery
stores. You will soon transition your baby into cereal and jarred
baby foods. Note: Some nutritionists may recommend that you start
your baby on jarred baby foods during this time period, and transition
into baby cereals. This can be your choice.
WARNING:
A baby can easily choke on hot dog chunks, nuts, seeds, popcorn, grapes,
chips, raisins, raw vegetables, and peanut butter. Never
feed a baby (under 1 year of age) honey.
6-8 months:
When your baby can:
1. Grasp and hold onto things
2. Sit without support
3. Begin to chew
4. Use a cup with help
A baby is still consuming
formula or breast milk.
Start with smooth strained or
pureed cooked vegetables. Do not add salt, sugar, or other
seasonings. Start teaching your baby to drink water from a small
cup. There are spill proof sipper cups that are perfect for your baby.
Then transition into strained or
pureed soft fruits. Again, no salt, sugar, or seasonings. Introduce
100% clear fruit juices (no citrus juices). Diluting juices with 1/3
(or 1/2) water is recommended. Limit juice to 2 ounces per
day.
Stay away from sweetened drinks,
soda pop, punch, gelatin water, or sugar water. Offer your baby at least 4
ounces of plain water per day.
Offer a variety of fruits and
vegetables, but in the beginning, try only one food type per day, so you
can identify food allergies. It is best to wait as many as 5 days before
introducing a new food. Watch for allergic reactions such as, skin rash,
gas, breathing problems, and diarrhea.*
Let your baby start to feed
himself, and continue to do so from this point on. Use child safe utensils
that are small enough for your baby's mouth and little hands. Use a clean
spoon to take food from the jar to your baby's dish. A baby's saliva
(spit) can spoil the food, which can cause diarrhea.
Don't force a baby to eat.
A baby will tell you she's had enough by turning her head away, closing
her lips, spitting the food out of the mouth, or throwing it on the floor.
Store left over jarred baby food
in the refrigerator, but use it within 2 days of opening the jar.
You can use a strainer, blender,
or baby food grinder to make baby food.
Always put juice in a cup.
Add strained or pureed meat or
chicken, strained or pureed cooked beans, cottage cheese, plain yogurt,
cooked egg yolk (mashed with breast milk, formula, or yogurt - but no egg
whites), and mashed tofu to the diet beginning at around 7-8 months.
Always wash your baby's hands
before and after eating. And wash the high chair tray, or eating
surface, after baby eats.
8-10 months:
When your baby can:
1. Take a bite of food
2. Pick up finger foods and feed herself
3. Use a cup
A baby is still consuming
formula or breast milk. As your baby eats
more solid food, she will drink less breast milk or formula.
Add a variety of fruits and
cooked vegetables (mashed with a fork), small pieces of mild cheese, and
finger foods such as: bread squares, unsalted crackers, small tortilla
pieces, small cubes of fruits and vegetables. Add cooked plain rice
and noodles (mashed or chopped), small pieces of cooked, ground meat,
chicken, or fish. Watch for bones and touch parts.
10-12 months:
When your baby can:
1. Chew and swallow soft
mashed and chopped
foods
2. Start to use a spoon
A baby is still consuming
formula or breast milk. As your baby eats
more solid food, she will drink less breast milk or formula.
At this point, your baby is
wanting whatever the parents and older siblings are eating. Let your baby
sit at the table with the family. Start using the bottle less and the cup
more, and wean your baby from the bottle by putting less and less
formula in it at each feeding. Bottle feeding can cause tooth decay,
and the longer you wait after 12 months, the harder it will be for your
baby to give it up.
You can introduce dry breakfast
cereals, crackers, and cooked egg yolks to your baby's diet.
1 Year
When your baby can:
1. Chew and swallow soft table
foods
2. Use a spoon
A baby transitions into whole
milk (and begins weaning from breast milk). Offer your baby 4 ounces of
whole milk in a cup, 4 times per day. You will be feeding your baby whole
milk up until at least age 2. Try to serve your baby liquids from a
cup only.
Start offering your baby 3 meals a day and healthy snacks in
between. Generally, a baby asks for a bottle when she's hungry.
Offer a snack or (a scheduled meal) instead, or anticipate the need, and
feed your baby before it arises.
* Allergies: Foods
that may cause allergic reactions are cow's milk, orange juice, egg
whites, wheat products, corn products, fish and other seafood, soy
products, nuts and peanut butter, chocolate, strawberries, and raw
tomatoes. Most babies will eventually outgrow these allergies.
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| Medicines
& Nursing Moms

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"Most medications have not
been tested in nursing women, so no one knows exactly how a given drug
will affect a breast-fed child. Since very few problems have been
reported, however, most over-the counter and prescription drugs, taken in
moderation and only when necessary, are considered
safe." The FDA
For additional information on the
effects of drugs, alcohol or medicines while breastfeeding, click here: www.fda.gov.
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